кαℓℓι'ѕ тяєєнσυѕє: Girl Stuff

Happy (Belated) Birthday!

Fri, 03 Aug 2007 13:47:42 GMT

Well lookit here!

It was Evil T's B-day yesterday and so in honour of another year;

Just pretend I bought you a Smirnoff OK?

xoxo

International Women's Day

Thu, 08 Mar 2007 13:45:33 GMT

It's International Women's Day today!

Big HUGS to all my girls!!

Happy Birthday PD!!!

Fri, 19 Jan 2007 14:07:02 GMT

To my First Mate PD!! YAY!!!

Thank Yousss

Mon, 08 Jan 2007 13:24:40 GMT

Even though I spent all day yesterday hung over and tired, I DID have a fab time on Saturday with everyone. BIG thanks to my dear friends and I promise I'll try to post photos soon.

Just thought I'd post a wee blog to say 'hello' and thanks and everything! I still feel like a thousand trucks ran over me and I don't want to go to work. I also started coughing which is NOT the sign I want. Everyone around me is sick and I just don't want to catch this evil bug.

I have to get back on the blog bus and start keeping up. It's been a static weekend. Perhaps I'll have more time after work?

Ciao for now.

MORE Birthday Fun

Fri, 05 Jan 2007 17:00:05 GMT

Melisa!

They Say It's My Birthday...

Sun, 31 Dec 2006 06:09:22 GMT

Yup... it's today.... My birthday... No, I wasn't born close to midnight, I was born in the morning. Sorry if I shattered any dreams there...lol If you MUST know, I am now the ripe old age of 34. Not like you could tell... does this font make me look old? I don't think so! ;-)

I'm sorry I haven't been around much lately. The holidays have been busy. And when they are not busy, I've been lazing around. I can't say it doesn't feel nice to do "nothing". Had a good xmas, ate a lot of things I shouldn't have. Santa was kind to me but he's still holding off on the iPod... lol Ah well, can't have it all now can we?

I honestly don't have much to say at the moment because it's late, and I'm tired. (yeah yeah same old song Kalli... hehe)

It's currently snowing like mad here and it's piling up by the hour. Quite pretty if you ask me, but it's going to make travel tomorrow a real hassle. I hope you got out of the city alright Mr. J.

Happy belated b-day to Eddie... I'm sorry I missed you on Friday, I hope everything went well! xoxo

I got your message Evil T... I can't find it either as the same thing happened to me when my pc went down for a bit!! I lost the link as well. I shall work on finding it for you soon.

Thanks for the early well-wishes Melisa! :) It was sweet of you to remember!

Jason - you gotta give me more notice! But thanks for considering... next time eh?

Have a great new year's eve everyone! Cheers to 2007 and here's hoping it's better than 2006!

I Met Loreena McKennitt Today!!

Sat, 09 Dec 2006 23:20:18 GMT

I am SO HAPPY!!! I stood in line for an hour and a half, but got to meet one of my most-loved artists ever!! I got her new album, plus autograph and was just so pleased to meet her! Funny thing is, I've had a couple of other opportunities in the past to meet her but shied away... So I shall admit that I was a bit nervous about finally shaking her hand and telling her how much I appreciated her and her art. But it was worth it!!! I also got to meet 2 lovely ladies in line with me and we exchanged emails to share our photos later! (I shall post more soon).

Her new album,"An Ancient Muse" is so ethereal. It's perfect for the holidays and just for sitting back and unwinding. Each song tells a story and transports you to the places that she's visited and her love for the Celtic people's history. I can't recommend it enough!

Well, it's back to being busy again. :P

Reprise~Girlfriend Rulez

Tue, 21 Nov 2006 20:05:18 GMT

So Jason asked me about details into what types of games girls "play" against one another. I think that's a valid Q... I mean heck, he's not a woman, but we can certainly educate him can't we? LOL

I figured that since I don't have time to type in every evil thing women can do to one another, I will instead, post the rules of female friendship. These "rules" are meant to weedle out a lot of that pathetic game-playing that women tend to inflict on each other. I actually think that women are almost more competitive with each other than men are. In fact, they are BETTER at it than men too because they have a conniving evil side to them. (Oh yeah, I'll admit it) We work on an emotional level, so we can inflict pain a lot more effectively at times. Not that I am saying I am one of those types of females, I am just speaking in generalised terms. I've also found in my travels in life, that women who grew up in households where they were the only female, tend to be more openly competitive with other women, than ladies who had younger or older sisters. This is just my experience of course, I could be living in a vacuum and be completely incorrect.

I don't claim to know all the reasons why women feel instantly jealous of other females... sometimes for no obvious reason. "Why can't we all just get along" comes to mind... as with, "You can't be friends with everyone". It's like there is some wild female gene that just grows hackles and horns and tranforms it's human host into a blood-sucking, venom-spitting demoness. I don't get it. Do women have a freaky jealously genome that just bubbles and bursts like a volcano whenever another female enters the room and commands some attention other than her? I dont' know. I DO know that single women are the worst for this... especially older single women. It's like they lift their legs and pee on the first eligible dude that steps into the room and fight tooth and nail for his attention. Why? Is there a shortage of men I haven't heard about? (Yes, yes, good men perhaps... but I am being real here...you know what I'm talking about people!!)

Most commonly abused rules? #'s 6-8. Which are also my BIGGEST pet peeves. Just thought I'd share that about myself with you. But as some of you know, I hold loyalty in friendship extremely high. Maybe even too high sometimes... I don't know. That's another blog for another day.

Anyhow, it seems that some ladies forget themselves and their friends when they enter a public place or when it comes to the opposite sex. The following "rules" are meant for entertainment, but also have hard truth in them. If you are a lady, you may understand. If you happen to be male, just read, enjoy, and be thankful you don't have to deal with the "cattiness" of your guy-friends... unless you do. In which case, I would love to hear about it!

So for you Jason (et al) because you asked...

The Girlfriend Rulez

1) Thou shalt always remember that men may come and go, but your girlfriends will ALWAYS be there.

2) One must regularily feed the girlfriend bond with plenty of conversation that includes honesty, trust, humour and plenty of chips and cookies.

3) Thou shalt always be completely honest with thy girlfriends, but it must be tempered with a grain of salt, especially when it comes to "boys".

4) No matter what personal beliefs thy may hold, in the end, thou shalt allow thy girlfriends to make their own mistakes, and be willing to listen to them cry about it later.

5) Thou shalt not flirt, date, kiss or do anything with thy girlfriend's ex's. They are considered to be "untouchable" and "unattainable" no matter what THEY may tell thee.

6) Thou shalt always respect thy fellow single girlfriends in regards to the meeting of the opposite sex. The "First-Come-First-Serve" rule MUST apply regardless of how 'silly' that may sound.

7) In addition to Rule #6 thou shalt show respect to "First-Served" girlfriend by communicating repectfully with her before attempting further possible romantic connections with cute single guy she was talking to at the table before YOU showed up.

8) Lastly in addition to Rule #6, thou shalt NOT, under ANY circumstances flirt with a member of the opposite sex that thy girlfriend has expressed honest interest in or is already attached to. For this, thy hair shall burn in the eternal flames of hell forcing thy stench to fill thy lungs for eternity.

9) Thou shalt do all that is possible to not ignore thy fellow girlfriends during times of dating/engagement/marriage.

10) Thou shalt always refer to Rule #1 in times of need and remember that these "Rules" shalt come naturally if thy friendship is true, honest and treasured by those lucky enough to have one.

As usual, any additions or questions are welcome.

PS: This was posted under "Girl Stuff" category originally... I think in Feb 2006? Sumfin like that.

Frustrated Disappointment

Sun, 19 Nov 2006 18:38:02 GMT

The following is a letter that I have almost written several times in my life, but never sent. I wanted to put it here... knowing that I am stirring the pot but I am in a "mood" and I just don't give a shit right now.

My sweet friend, please stop competing with me in a game that I am not playing. It behoves both you and I and creates a gap between us that is painful. You should know me by now that I don't play petty girl-games, as that type of behavior has no place in my mind with true friendship. Regardless of what some people think, this type of manuevering never leads to anything good. Please stop before we destroy a bond that I hold very dear to my heart.

Just some thoughts for the morning... heavy, but my mind is flipping O.T. Take it as you will.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY NONI!!!

Wed, 08 Nov 2006 21:05:25 GMT

NONI!!!

SHRIMP ROCKS

Fri, 21 Jul 2006 15:06:17 GMT

LIVE @ The Royal Albert in Winnipeg:

SHRIMP

Okay people, it's what you've all been anxiously waiting for. Shrimp is about to make their CD debut next Friday at The Royal Albert. I know you are all biting your nails in anticipation. Our fearless crewmate Catherine AKA Raw Shrimp will be singing her lungs out for us next to her wild and hot bandmates.

They have revamped their website so feel free to click on the name at the top to be sent on a wild ride. All information about the band can be found there including their upcoming gig/cd release.

If you live here, I expect anyone who reads this to show up that night!!! Come out for a beer, enjoy the lovely atmosphere, and support the sexiest punk band in town.

CHEERS! See you there!!

Folk It Up

Thu, 06 Jul 2006 05:49:36 GMT

How now m'friends? It's almost time to depart and go on our merry trail of camping at the 33rd Annual Winnipeg Folk Festival! A long weekend of music, fun and plenty of partying. The only weekend of the year where I get aprox. 6 hours of sleep the entire time. BUT IT'S WORTH IT!! I can't wait to hear some of the groups and solo artists this year. Bedouin Soundclash will be kicking off the mainstage tommorrow night which should be awesome. Not to mention hanging at the Firefly Palace on Saturday night listening to some great spins by the Globesonic Soundsystem. It's not just folkie-country-music people!!

PD and I got up this morning at the crack o'dawn and sped over to the park to stake a claim on a good spot. After waiting in line for almost 4 hours including one sunburnt arm and a slightly dehydrated captain, we finally made it in. I am somewhat hopeful that whoever decides to camp next to us will be kind enough to share the firepit that we have nabbed. Last year sucked for that as the dudes we were next to were quite rude. We will be bringing out the rest of our gear tommorrow afternoon and will start enjoying the 30C weather. LOL Looks like no rain is in the forecast either... which will be strange because if this is the case, it will be the first time EVER that no rain will fall on the Festival weekend.

Other highlights shall include a PIRATE SHIP in the Festival campground! YES!!! I kid you not. We shall be raising our Jolly Roger in pride this year. Your Captain and her First Mate shall be partying it up in the ship with the rest of the motley crew. Just don't eat the cookies!!! LMAO Be sure to check back next week for our photo diary. I am sure you will all have a good laugh at the progression of dirt and sunburn. (-;

So that said, we also shall be coming BACK into town briefly on Sunday as we cannot miss the final WC match. (Yes, we are THAT addicted) Either that or find some pub nearby that won't mind a couple of dirty camp girls cheering their hearts out for France! VIVE LES BLEUS!! Oh yeah, I said that already didn't I?

So I bid you all a fair weekend and please pop by and leave me a message once and awhile eh? I am leaving the Treehouse in good hands and please take care of it while the First Mate and I are sailing off on adventure! I think we are going to stop off at the theatre on the way back to catch POTC II. Oh yeah me hearties, don't be thinkin I have forgotten that!

CHEERS!!! See/Read ya next week!!

Capt. Kalli 2-Blades

Women Who Fish

Fri, 30 Jun 2006 19:28:02 GMT

So today, I cannot go into much from my pc at work since it's on the fritz. Am quite frustrated to say the least as I am way behind in emails, work etc. So I don't have much time to blog which is also difficult since I am a little addict!!!

Anyhow, I have decided to share an email that my dear friend, Miss "K" sent me. It's pretty cute and I don't normally like cutting and pasting stuff, but this was too cute. I think that we should have our own minds and be able to come up with our own stuff in a blog once and awhile. There are times when cutting and pasting is fun, but not for an entire blog... I'm babbling now, sorry. Just don't get me started on that one. Anyhow here it is and have a FABULOUS WEEKEND EVERYONE!!

Never Argue with a Woman

One morning the husband returns after several
hours of fishing and decides to take a nap. Although not familiar
with the lake, the wife decides to take the boat out.
She motors out a short distance, anchors, and reads her book.

Along comes a Game Warden in his boat. He pulls up
alongside the woman and says, "Good morning, Ma'am. What
are you doing?"

"Reading a book," she replies, (thinking,"Isn't that obvious?")
"You're in a Restricted Fishing Area," he informs her.

"I'm sorry, officer, but I'm not fishing. I'm reading."

"Yes, but you have all the equipment. For all I know
you could start at any moment. I'll have to take you in
and write you up."
"If you do that, I'll have to charge you with
sexual ssault," says the woman.

"But I haven't even touched you!" says the game warden.
"That's true, but you have all the equipment.
For all I know you could start at any moment."

"Have a nice day ma'am," and he left.

MORAL: Never argue with a woman who reads.
It's likely she can also think.

LOL HAPPY FRIDAY!!!

SHRIMP

Sun, 18 Jun 2006 00:33:53 GMT

Tonight @ The Collective

SEE

SHRIMP

LIVE!!!

Be there to see Winnipeg's hottest & sexiest all-girl punk band!!!

10pm

Reprise

Fri, 21 Apr 2006 14:59:51 GMT

Friday... I love Friday. What is this dark cloud that's been hanging over my head for some of this week? I must be either going mad or just "thinking too much"... or both?? lol Much to the detriment of my nightly convo with Xander... poor thing. Really, I should have just said "good night" earlier and called it quits for the evening. Strange things, strange convos and just sad subject matter. We need to stop that before I fall into the foetal position and scream "MERCY!!!" Plus, you don't wanna burn your apartment down. It's enough that you lost the perogies!! eep. LOL

I feel that I may have freaked him out a bit with my passionate opinions on the morals one keeps in a committed relationship. I need some back up ladies! We touched on the whole subject of couples having friends of the opposite sex. I think I perhaps was a bit on the devil's advocate side last night and gave him a hard time regarding this subject matter. Of course, in my life, I have been burned one too many times with this issue so my feelings are pretty strong and almost relationship-nazi-sounding. But in the end, every relationship is relative. Two people gotta do what they think is right and what they agree on. Compromise is always good, but not to the point where it obliterates everything one believes. Naturally. If they cannot agree on the basic principals, then don't even bother startin something.

To make a quick sum up I basically told him that when 2 peeps are married, I didn't think it's cool if for instance the wife spends time alone with a single man, especially in a private atmosphere. Have I opened up a can of worms now? The reason being, is that WHY would one wish to forge bonds with a single person of the opposite sex when you have made your lifelong choice in partner? Don't you think that would be splitting a certain part of you that shouldn't be split? I am not a tyrant, I am not saying that you should just dump all opposite sex friends when u marry! Hell no. It's just that one should proceed with an air of prudence. Who are we to know what can or can not happen or if the other person isn't harboring some secret feelings that are just waiting for a moment to come out? As I always say, don't go opening doors to places you can't know or predict what are on the other side in relationships. Would it not be a show of deep respect and commitment to one's spouse if you didn't purposely go out and spend a bunch of "quality alone-time" with someone other than your sig. other? Once again, I feel some people are too "PC" in relationships and are too scared to say how they feel and what really may bother them. I mean hell, if you wanna be in a marriage where you prefer to spend alone time with your so-called "best friend" who happens to be of the opposite sex, go right ahead. But ask yourself; shouldn't you be MARRIED to your best friend if that's the case? I just don't get it...

So then the question came up of what if you weren't married? Just dating? Well I would have to say, that it all depends on the trust between the two people involved and the honesty as well. For instance, the more open and honest a person is, the less likely there is reason to doubt... correct? I hate Hate HATE it when people think that omitting TELLING a person something is "sparing" them, and hense, no lies are committed. In reality, when you don't TELL it, it is still a lie. I lived with someone who did this to me all the time. Like if he didn't TELL me where he was the night before, (and the shit he was doing was wrong) he figured that he wasn't lying etc. Bullshit. A lie is a lie is a lie no matter how one colours it. Quote; "The truth only hurts if you've been lied to." Therefore! Some of my personal preferences regarding marriage still apply in a committed relationship, except I don't think I'd be as stern on it. I mean, if you've known someone for a long time before you even dated someone, then whatever, fine, cool, hang out, doesn't matter. But don't lie about it, and don't hide the friendship. Cause if you find you are doing that, then there's something wrong with your "relationship".

In the end, it all comes back down to honesty,trust and respect doesn't it people? If you don't have that, you don't have anything. Real love can't be forged without those things and that's it. There's no compromise there.

I would just also like to add, that as I've gotten older, my opinions about dating and relationships have matured. What was important to me at 21, seems to not have as much bearing to me in my 30's. Of course, there is still that basic instinct to be wanted, loved and to find a compatible companion. I think that my approach, and my general attitude is much better now compared to then. I am not a tyranical freak who will "demand" things and refuse to bend. I think that I am most willing to always talk things through and come to agreements rather than tantrums and forgive and move forward rather than hold grudges and seek vengeance. I will never settle for childish behavior or sullen attitudes. There was a time I thought that was cute, lol but not anymore. As I said last night, communication is KEY.

Monogamy... so highly UNDERrated. What is more fun or beautiful than growing with someone and getting to know them on a deeper level as time passes? Sheeesh. I can't figure out why people so desperate for the grass on the other side of the fence all the time! You still gotta weed and mow that grass too dammit. LMAO

Here's a little quote from a December blog. Thought I would put it here again as I find it so supremely fitting. Happy Friday all!

"As I grow in age, I value women who are over 30 most of all. Here are just a few reasons why:

A woman over 30 will never wake you in the middle of the night to ask, "What are you thinking?" She doesn't care what you think.

If a woman over 30 doesn't want to watch the game, she doesn't sit around whining about it. She does something she wants to do. And, it's usually something more interesting.

A woman over 30 knows herself well enough to be assured in who she is, what she is, what she wants and from whom. Few women past the age of 30 give a damn what you might think about her or what she's doing. Women over 30 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't esitate to shoot you, if they think they can get away with it.

Older women are generous with praise, often undeserved. They know what it's like to be unappreciated.

A woman over 30 has the self-assurance to introduce you to her women friends. A younger woman with a man will often ignore even her best friend because she doesn't trust the guy with other women. Women over 30 couldn't care less if you're attracted to her friends because she knows her friends won't betray her.

Women get psychic as they age. You never have to confess your sins to a woman over 30. They always know.

A woman over 30 looks good wearing bright red lipstick. This is not true of younger women.

Once you get past a wrinkle or two, a woman over 30 is far sexier than her younger counterpart.

Older women are forthright and honest. They'll tell you right off you're a jerk if you are acting like one! You don't ever have to wonder where you stand with her.

Yes, we praise women over 30 for a multitude of reasons. Unfortunately, it's not reciprocal. For every stunning, smart, well-coiffed hot woman of 30+, there is a bald, paunchy relic in yellow pants making a fool of himself with some 22-year-old waitress.

Ladies, I apologize. For all those men who say, "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free". Here's an update for you. Nowadays 80% of women are against marriage, why? Because women realize it's not worth buying an entire Pig, just to get a little sausage."

Dear Noni....

Wed, 15 Mar 2006 22:42:37 GMT

I am gonna give noni a little shout out right now... hehe Girl you ROCK!! I must apologise for my jumping subjects, but you know how it goes... the mind works in strange ways. Stranger when one is sickie poo. But that's no excuse cause you know darn well that I like to jump around. Thanks for sloggin thru the missive though, love that fist shakin girl! xoxo

Stayed home again today. Best way I can describe it is that the flood gates on my nose opened up last night and hasn't stopped since. How's that for graphic? Hey, just tellin it like it is. I think I am sick of being sick though. I need stronger antibodieeees! dammit!

Well that's all there is to say for now. Don't feel like whining and complaining, but wanted to post a little sumfin sumfin to say hello to everyone. Let's hope Thursday is better ya?

For The Ladies

Wed, 08 Mar 2006 21:55:11 GMT

Happy International Women's Day!

Yes, it's really today and this isn't some silly chain letter thing.

I've been gone some of the day today as I was attending a conference being put on by the Women Business Owners of Manitoba. What an awesome day! I got to hear some great advice by some great women. Unfortunately my blog has lacked for the first time in awhile, but it was well worth it.

I will just add that I am so glad to know such cool ladies and am very proud to call you my friends! Who would not want such wonderfully creative, witty, fun and gorgeous women for friends?? You ladies inspire me to always try harder and to grow stronger. Thanks for sharing your stories and your time with me both in real life and online!

Cheers to you!!

The Girlfriend Rulez of Dating

Wed, 15 Feb 2006 17:26:52 GMT

FIRST! I must say that for a crap day yesterday, my evening was FABULOUS!!! I gotta thank PD, Tonia, Carla and Cheri for coming by, bringing their beautiful faces, awesome minds and lots of junk food! lol We had a great Anti-Valentine's Day party! We laughed and shared and I can't thank you enough for putting me back in a positive mood! mmmmwwwahh!!!

One of the things we talked about was the "Girlfriend Rulez" which in the past I have been known to make comment on. Now for some of you (girls included) you don't seem to understand these usually unspoken set of rules. That's a shame. So for your benefit and for posterity, I shall try to outline some of the key points as it seems to one of the ladies last night, those rules were broken. I don't know if the guilty party reads my blogs... THAT would be a laugh and a half... but it is also for people like her that I especially put this in today;

The Girlfriend Rulez in Dating:

1) Thou shalt always remember that boys may come and go, but your girlfriends will ALWAYS be there.

2) One must regularily feed the girlfriend bond with plenty of conversation that includes honesty, trust, humour and plenty of chips and cookies.

3) Thou shalt always be completely honest with thy girlfriends, but it must be tempered with a grain of salt, especially when it comes to "boys".

4) No matter what personal beliefs thy may hold, in the end, thou shalt allow thy girlfriends to make their own mistakes, and be willing to listen to them cry about it later.

5) Thou shalt not flirt, date, kiss or do anything with thy girlfriend's ex's. They are considered to be "untouchable" and "unattainable" no matter what THEY may tell thee.

6) Thou shalt always respect thy fellow single girlfriends in regards to the meeting of the opposite sex. The "First-Come-First-Serve" rule MUST apply regardless of how 'silly' that may sound.

9) Thou shalt do all that is possible to not ignore thy fellow girlfriends during times of dating/engagment/marriage.

10) Thou shalt always refer to Rule #1 in times of need and remember that these "Rules" shalt come naturally if thy friendship is true, honest and treasured by those lucky enough to have one.

These would be considered the "main'" rules of course. There are most likely additional ones. Please feel free to add if you so wish if you think something vital has been forgotten. This took me all morning to enter because work is a beeatch today. I hope it helps some of you. And I truly meant it that essentially, these are not really "rules" in true friendship, it all comes down to RESPECT for your friends. It goes both ways; it is given and earned. It can just as easily be lost, so keep it close and hold it dear if you have it. Not everyone does. I am truly blessed to have such a great core of friends who have a mutual respect for themselves and for others. Plus, we are all strong women who believe that we don't need to be constantly catty with one another to be AROUND one another. I LOVE THAT!

Anyhow, next time, on "Kalli's Treehouse" we will be discussing "The Fine Line" on the internet. That "Line" being online friendships/relationships and people's general misconceptions about what is "acceptable" to maintain plutonic relationships over the net as opposed to romantic ones.

Thanks again for takin the time to read my leetle blog and I hope you leave a comment to let me know you were here!!

PS: LOST is on tonight!!! Don't forget to watch the new eppie!!!! looool

PD's Birthday

Mon, 23 Jan 2006 05:16:34 GMT

AWESOME time had by all! I just wanted to make a quick little entry to say thanks to everyone for the great time and I am glad that YOU had a good time PD! We luv ya lots girl and I am glad we got to spend your "day" with you! Can I just say one more time how happy I was to be able to EAT the food provided without wincing??? LOL mmmmmmmm deep-fried goodness...

Karaoke was a scream... sometimes literally! LOL Gotta say, PD belting out "Creep" was pretty hilarious... But me forgetting how to sing a U2 song with Mel was rather embarrassing... sorry hun...LOL I hope I made it up singin Bohemian Rhapsody with Catherine... TOO FUNNY! Oh yeah, and Mitzie singin Rick Astley is something I will NEVER forget.. especially the little "wiggle dance" you did along with it... LMAO From PD and Heidi singin "Oops, I Did It Again", to Mel beltin out "Go West" with Mitzie, Put another dime in the jukebox Catherine-baby!... and then Patrick, Pd's bro, singin G&R! Wow! Pretty cool. We should rent one of those karaoke rooms again! But this time, someplace that has more english songs rather than foreign language eh? LOOOL Oh yeah, and LICENSED!! hehe

THENNNNNN, back to the Toad for more beer and socialization... I think PD was the perfect little butterfly flyin around and visiting with everyone she knew... But Jack, if you are reading this, you GOTTA realise you weren't the "grandaddy" there... LMAOOOOO poor dude. The evening was good especially when we spotted "Loverboy Wannabe" in the crowd. Some dude was walking around with a terry sweatband!!! We're like, WTF IS THAT??????????? I thought it was a joke, but I don't think so... pretty frightening. Someone should tell him it's 2006, NOT 1986. tsk tsk

I will post some photos soon... but check out PD's site for the pictures if you wish to see them now... Make sure to let us know what you think of "The Photo Of The Week" too eh?

CHEERS TO ALL and bleh to Mondays... pffft

Long Time No Read

Wed, 11 Jan 2006 19:49:35 GMT

Well yeah, I've been a bad bean and not really written much lately. For this, I apologise xoxoxo So I will do some quick updates first eh?

NYE was awesome... but I think I mentioned that already...hehe TY Mel and Randy for the fantastic time and the karaoke! OH yeah! Ups to PD for singing at the top of our lungs until 3am... Let's do THAT again!

Last weekend I had a blast as well. I decided to celebrate my birthday on Saturday instead of NYE because I wanted to have a night all about ME... HA! But before that, on Friday, we went to the pub. WHATTA NIGHT! I drank so much beer and made merry until we were kicked out of the pub! hehe Met up with an old friend from high school who showed me around and introduced me to a bunch of folk too. THANKS STEVE!!! I am just sorry that by the end of the night I was so tipsy I don't remember everyone's names.... eep! And my hero, Mitzie, she practically carried me all the way home. So cheers to Big Strong Mitzie!! xoxoxo

During this time, Alli was in town and it was so nice to have her here for all of the fun. I am just sorry you couldn't stay longer and hang with the gang more. But never fear! We'll all see each other again soon and have some more FUN!!

My birthday party was lots of fun and our team, DAS BOOT won Trivia Pursuit. WTG Kim for getting that last clue!! And special thank yous to Catherine for baking me that yummy cake. I was so sorry that you had to go early... I TRIED to save you a piece... but ummm... well.... it was sitting there on the counter STARING at me and just whispering for me to take a bite. I obviously have no self control. ((blush)) So it seems that I have many thank yous to all my lovely friends for just bein there and making it such a fun night. I think we have all done a great job of starting off 2006 with a bang!

Let's see, what else? PD has finally decided to join the online community!! YAAAAAAY! So please go and visit her site and drop a "hello" to her. http://spaces.msn.com/members/raygunsthebest/PersonalSpace.aspx?_c= Soon, all of my pirate crew will hopefully be around so we can pillage as a mass... hehehe arrrRRrrRrr!!!

Ranting portion of my blog... which I really haven't done much of lately... too much happy mushy feelings etc. But seriously I will encourage you all to go out and vote on the 23rd... PLEASE I know a lot of you could care less, but seriously those poopie conservatives are gaining support and we really need to stop it. Can you imagine a Canada run by a government that is buddy buddy with ole Georgie down south???????? THAT in itself is frightening!! PLEASEPLEASEPLEASE vote!!! Even if it's only to keep the conservative nazi's outta power! It's not much out of your day and you are allowed to leave work to do so in most cases! I fear deeply for our country if those dudes get power. HECK, vote GREEN PARTY if you hate all the other guys. Vote for those Quebec dudes if you must, just keep Harper O-U-T!!!! Ah-hem... that's if for now on THAT subject.

I've had a few bummed out days recently. Thinking of last year as opposed to this year. Such a huge difference. Everything from my relationship status to the weather! Oh, and just because I am feeling in a "mood", "To whom it may concern"; YOU'RE AN ASS. And that's all you are gonna get in MY blog cause you don't deserve any more space. pfft

Anyhow, how has everyone else been? Any good stories to share about your hols? Was anyone stuck in bed like me with sickness or whatevs? :D

OH YEAH and FINALLY!!! LOST is on tonight!! FINALLY a new eppie!! Am so PSYCHED. Me and PD got our Wednesday "dates" back and goin. Can't wait cause tonight we are goin to find out about one of my favourite characters, Mr. Ecko! WOOOOO Not to mention there's gonna be a whole hour dedicated to all of you people who know NOTHING about the show. Even though you couldn't possibly watch a recap show and get the full effect, it should still be awesome. This show is the best damn thing on TV and I can't get enough of it. I got the DVD of season 1 and have already watched it once through and can't wait until the summer when they release season 2!! PD and I shall convert the rest of the crew then. Then, Wednesday nights will never be the same! (insert evil laughter here)

Ok, so now that you've read all my BS I hope you have a better day than I am and keep in touch. Especially my fellow Lost fans! I always love a good theory! Thanks for sloggin thru the blog eh?

I have the coolest friends

Wed, 04 Jan 2006 20:13:12 GMT

Well another year has passed, along with another birthday. Do I feel older you ask? Not really. I feel.... freer to be honest. I feel that as I age, I learn to let more things go and learn more about who I am and wtf I am doin in this life. All this in turn frees me up to enjoy life more and appreciate the things I have, rather than what I don't.

I want to say, that I really do have the coolest friends on the planet. They are the most incredible bunch of ladies you'll ever meet. They are kind, supportive and just plain FUN. They know how to laugh in the funny times and they all know how to give a good hug and lend an ear in the icky times. So to honour my sweet girlfriends for bein the bestest to me in the last year, I will tell you something nice about each of them. It is my way of saying "thank you thank you thank you" for just being here and allowing me in your life!

Nancy - We've known each other for over 16 years and you have always remained constant and never lost touch with me thru all my travels. I always admired that about you. You always go the extra distance and it doesn't go unnoticed.

Melissa - What can I say, but thank you for being there always with such a generous heart and open ear. I am so glad we got to go on so many adventures this year. You are the first friend I've ever travelled with and I have to say, you make it so seamless and FUN.

Kerry - My new partner in crime... lol And singing partner too now eh? You are an extremely strong and open hearted person... more so than I think you give yourself credit for. You are a treasure and I am glad you've let me be your friend!

Catherine - I have always admired the way you observe things and express your feelings. You've got a self-confidence that just beams out of you that I can only hope rubs off on me a bit...lol Plus, you just crack me up with your wit.

Allison - My dear, ever since we met, I felt we always had a lot more in common than even WE could realise! I love the fact that no matter how long it's been since we chatted, we always pick right up where we left off with ease. You are beautiful inside AND out and I feel so blessed to have you as a friend. I like how you always look BEYOND the first layer. You always inspire me to do the same.

This is not to ignore all the other awesome peeps in my life, but these are the people I spend the most of my time with and I just wanted them to know how much I love them. Awww mushy stuff.

mmmuuuuaaahhhh!!!!!

Women 30+

Sat, 10 Dec 2005 22:59:57 GMT

Awesome Quote;

"As I grow in age, I value women who are over 30 most of all. Here are
just a few reasons why:

A woman over 30 will never wake you in the middle of the night to ask, "What are you thinking?" She doesn't care what you think.

If a woman over 30 doesn't want to watch the game, she doesn't sit around whining about it. She does something she wants to do. And, it's usually something more interesting.

A woman over 30 knows herself well enough to be assured in who she is, what she is, what she wants and from whom. Few women past the age of 30 give a damn what you might think about her or what she's doing. Women over 30 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't esitate to shoot you, if they think they can get away with it.

Older women are generous with praise, often undeserved. They know what it's like to be unappreciated.

A woman over 30 has the self-assurance to introduce you to her women friends. A younger woman with a man will often ignore even her best friend because she doesn't trust the guy with other women. Women over 30 couldn't care less if you're attracted to her friends because she knows her friends won't betray her.

Women get psychic as they age. You never have to confess your sins to a woman over 30. They always know.

A woman over 30 looks good wearing bright red lipstick. This is not true of younger women.

Once you get past a wrinkle or two, a woman over 30 is far sexier than her younger counterpart.

Older women are forthright and honest. They'll tell you right off you're a jerk if you are acting like one! You don't ever have to wonder where you stand with her.

Yes, we praise women over 30 for a multitude of reasons. Unfortunately, it's not reciprocal. For every stunning, smart, well-coiffed hot woman of 30+, there is a bald, paunchy relic in yellow pants making a fool of himself with some 22-year-old waitress.

Ladies, I apologize. For all those men who say, "Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free". Here's an update for you. Nowadays 80% of women are against marriage, why? Because women realize it's not worth buying an entire Pig, just to get a little sausage."

I LOVE THIS!! TY Alli for sending it on... exactly what I feel! Cheers to all you ladies out there 30+!!!

Happy Birthday Nancy!

Sun, 13 Nov 2005 07:49:31 GMT

HAPPY BIRTHDAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!

Ok, so it's almost 2am and we are STILL playing Mario Party 7....LOL YAY!!!!!

Whatta day! Dim Sum Saturday PLUS birthday party... I am so full of food I think I am about to burst! It was great to see everyone at Dim Sum today, so thanks to all you ladies for making it a fantastic lunch. Let's do that again soon! I think we've found some new converts. We gotta keep going and make it to a buck a meal! How many of us do you think that will take? Too fun!

Well...back to playin'! CHEERS!

We touched the holy grails of music!

Mon, 26 Sep 2005 02:13:25 GMT

MELISSA MET BONO!!!!

No! I am NOT kidding! AND she got his autograph AND she met Adam and got HIS autograph too. You ask, "Where the hell were YOU?" Well, I was in another part of the "mob" trying to get photos and not realising that my sweet friend had (once again) pushed her way to the front! LOL Although, I don't know WHO it was, but there was a VERY nice girl who happened to be sitting on the shoulders of her boyfriend who took the pictures for me. THANK YOU whoever you are! We are sure they will turn out awesome!

But I am jumping ahead of myself. I almost think there is just too much to write about in one entry! I mean, it's obvious I get pretty long-winded.. HA HA HA, but I seriously am thinking our little adventure will have to go in 2 parts... or more. Plus, I am sick. Yeah, pretty crappy. I've been sitting at home all day trying to fight an illness. Sucks even more because I start my class on Tuesday and I CANNOT be ill for that. Cross your fingers for me.

So, I will sum up our trip for a bit here and crawl back into bed.

The drive was fine, the border crossing was nice. Actually had a friendly state trooper. Amazing. Saw some pretty silly stuff on the way out there and have pictures to prove it when I get them developed!

Cool things about the concert besides getting autographs and watching a fabulous show from the front row on the floor, was the people! What AWESOME folk we met in line that day. I was so pleased. One really funny part was when Mel dropped me off so I could get us a place in line, and I started to chat it up with the girls in front of me. I asked if they were from Minneapolis and they said no, from Canada. Of course I asked them where and they vaguely stated "Manitoba". Of course my curiosity was peaked, and asked what city. SILLY GIRLS!! They thought I was American and wouldn't know where WINNIPEG was! ROTFLMAO Yeah, pretty cool, sat all day in line with a bunch of Winnipegers. Of course they weren't the only ones with us. We met some great folk from Minneapolis, Chicago, Orlando and beyond.

I really loved Minneapolis and was sad that we couldn't stay longer. I found the people there to be friendly and it reminded me a lot of home. Only a LOT larger of course! I hope that we can visit there again soon.

Our early morning rise did us good as we got an excellent spot again for the show. Right up front (not in the ellipse tho) only on the opposite side that we were on the last time. One of my favourite parts was when Mel and I took out the marker and wrote on our hands. LOL I put on Mel's hands; "Bono -- Pick Me!" and on mine; "Hi -- Adam". LMAO And both the guys saw them! Adam had a laugh and smiled at me as he came by and I still have a laugh everytime I think about it. Unfortunately, Bono didn't pick Mel to dance with him... but he DID see her hands, and it ALMOST looked like he would do it... then he turned and chose some other girl down the way from us. Mel was dissapointed but not completely. I mean, she DID meet him outside and she DID TOUCH HIS ARM! LMAO I almost cried when she came screaming out of the crowd from me and squeeled, "I FUCKING TOUCHED BONO!!!!!" ROTFLMAO I am so happy for her! And at the end of the concert, I reached out and shook Adam's hand. THAT was just the BEST too!

We touched the holy grails of music... HAHA!!!

I think this was the best year ever for us with this concert tour. I've never had these kind of experiences in my life and I will never forget them. It made this band seem so much more human to us and just gives me a deeper respect for what they do. I am truly grateful for it all.

I will tell you more stories later but I must get some rest. This big sick sucks. But I can't wait to get the photos of our time in the Twin Cities. We exchanged email addresses with everyone so that we can all trade photos etc. So check back soon for more updates!!